Mery Rose
"When you passionately pursue a dream,
you create the opportunity
to achieve it."
Mery Rose
Flying has been one of humanity's oldest dreams. Who hasn't dreamed of soaring high up in the beautiful blue skies like a happy bird?!
When I was a child, I dreamed that I was a bird. I gently flew, glidingthrough the skies! I could feel the cold breeze brushing against my face. Seeing life from a different perspective, from top to bottom, was a unique experience
—I felt freedom, happiness, and empowerment.
The endless horizon, adorned like a dazzling diamond necklace, was mesmerizing! The dream felt so real that it remains one of the most vivid dreams I have ever had. "The Dreams of Flying" (O Sonho de Voar!)
is the name of one of my poems.
I grew up in my parents' lands "Castelo Sítio-Farm" in the backlands of Maranhão state, in the Northeast of Brazil—a rural area with a tropical climate.
The heavy daily rains at 3 pm, with lightning and thunder, generally only lasted 15-20 minutes and would suddenly stop, and the warm sun returned to shine again. An amusing aspect was that whenever we planned to meet friends in the afternoon, we used to say, "See you later after the rain... or before the rain. One of my favorite memories is showering in the rain, enjoying the beautiful rainbows, and feeling the pleasant geosmin's smell—the wet earth's Petrichor after the rain.
What does it mean to be constantly "outside your age?" When I was a child, people said I had an "old soul" someone who thought big, 'outside the box.' Today, as an adult, people say I have a childish attitude.
My responsibility at Castelo Sítio was to manually check the daily rain gauge readings and record them in the big book. I was five years old. The hydrometer provides accurate measurements of the volume and temperature of rainwater. The rainfall intensity at Castelo Sítio was always consistently very high.
My father was my greatest source of support, he aided me in navigating unfamiliar situations helping me to perform my functions more effectively, and over time, I began to execute tasks exceptionally well. Receiving praise from everyone made him filled with pride for the work I was accomplishing.
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It was common to keep cash in a plastic bag under the mattress during that time, but my father chose to open a bank savings account for me, to deposit the cash he provided me. A year later, I decided to buy a new bike with my own money, but when the accountant returned from the bank, he had disappointing news. The banker informed him that inflation had devalued the money in my savings account. Since my account was in the red, the banker advised me to make a deposit as soon as possible to cover the debt with the bank and avoid having my name listed in the Credit Protection Service (SPC) as having bad credit.
My father made a new deposit and consoled me through a heartbreaking situation, wiping away my tears becouse I couldn't stop crying, didn't understand how the bank had seemingly taken my money.
Castelo Sítio is home to a vast natural forest of babassu coconut palm trees, a species native to Brazil. These palms are influenced by three climate types: equatorial, semi-arid, and tropical. 90 percent of the babassu coconut palm tree forest in Brazil is in Maranhão, my home state. Palms can grow up to 60 feet tall, and there is no cultivated planting; they grow naturally.
The babassu coconut is a versatile resource, with its oil as a key ingredient in producing a wide range of products. These include soaps, cosmetics, margarines, special fats, and cooking oil. Furthermore, coconut powder, rich in starch, is a staple recipe for regional dishes and the production of highly nutritious vegetable drinks like milk. The almond is also an ingredient in vinegar and the alcoholic drink Cachaça. This astounding versatility showcases the babassu coconut's richness and its potential to contribute to various industries.
At the Castelo Sítio, my family was large. I lived with my parents, three sisters, two brothers, and my paternal grandparents; Grandpa Christiano and Grandma MA—Maria dos Anjos. Throughout my life, I have never met anyone who doesn't like my parents and grandparents. They were always loved by everyone who knew them.
Chico Cristo & Mimosa have been married for 56 years.
My father has passed away. He was well-known as "Chico Cristo," because there were many others named Francisco. The "Chico" in his nickname originated from Francisco, and the "Cristo" from his father's name, Cristiano. It was a variation of "Chico from Cristo." I have never met someone as honest and lovely as he was. His personality was truly unique, rare, and remarkable. He was the best father a daughter could have asked for. No one has ever loved me more than he did. I miss him tremendously!
Mimosa, a nickname of a lifetime that resonates with warmth and charm, perfectly embodies the spirit of my mother. A retired teacher with a degree in Fine Arts, her magnetic personality captivates everyone around her, effortlessly winning hearts. Known for her flexibility and approachability, Mimosa turns heads wherever she goes. The famous and delicious drink "Mimosa" — champagne, orange juice, and ice—, For decades has been a favorite among us all.
When asked about the secret to keeping a fascinating married life for so long, she chuckles, 'Life isn't always as rosy as it seems: for all these years of marriage, I can hardly wear my high-heeled sandals because I'm taller than my husband!' Her spontaneous answer brings laughter to everyone in the room.
Today, at 95 years old, the 'Mimozita de Açúcar', affectionately called, lives alone in her two-bedroom and one-bathroom apartment under the family's supervision, who lives just next-door. She is a very healthy, happy mother, grandmother, and great-grandfather, and has a great life. She loves parties and remains at the top of the family and friends lists. "Party without Mimosa isn't a party." Friends said.
On May 2024, Mimosa celebrated her 95th birthday with family and many friends.
My school hours were from 8:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. It was about three kilometers from home. The school bus used to pick up my brother Neiff (four years older than me) and me at 7:45 a.m. at the gate of Castelo and drop us back at 12:30 p.m.
The driver, who owned the bus, had a funny nickname, “Boca-Rica” (Rich-Mouth), for all his teeth were covered in gold. After school, I spent the rest of my day running from one side to the other, playing, riding my bike, swimming, and jumping from the highest tree branches into the cold waters of the river. When jumping from trees became monotonous, I started jumping from the bridge.
I developed a strong ethic of a free and independent life because to Castelo Sítio's safe environment. As I became older, I began to act as a "mother" figure to the employees' kids in Castelo Sítio Village when I was around six years old.
Being an extremely active child who was always zigzagging around, I was known as "Miss-Zig-Daia." I wouldn't say I enjoyed the moniker, and I forbade anyone from using it. My father was my protector and hero, and he would usually gently intervene and put things right when they started to go wrong. Everyone ceased using the nickname at his command. —But anytime I did something that my sisters didn't like at home, they kept saying, "Stop, Miss-Zig-Daia."
I didn't give the future much thought when I was younger. I was thinking about how I could soar like a bird. But I did question my father one day why he and his friends were continually asking me what I wanted to be when I grew up. He showed his excitement for the topic by grinning and kissing my face:
— "So, my beautiful, do you already have an answer?" He inquired.
— "Dad, I don't consider these things. It's for adults to worry about the future. "I'm only six years old," I remarked.
—"Sweetheart, I understand that you have important things to focus on in your childhood, and I support that. But I would like you to spend more time studying. You need to do your homework every day. As you requested, I provided you with a Brazil geographic book and a 100-piece Brazil Map puzzle, but you haven't had the chance to use them yet. You focus only on playing all the time." He said.​
—"Dad, before you go ahead, let me tell you one thing: I spend four hours a day, five days a week at school, and you still want me to study when I arrive at home? Do you want to have a daughter with a degree in astronomy or science?" I asked.
​—"Sweetheart, don't make me laugh. I have some concerns that I'd like to discuss with you. Your frequent falls off the bike have been leaving you with scratches all over your body. I understand your passion for pushing yourself to perform faster and higher pirouettes, but could you please consider slowing down a bit? On top of that, the bike itself is completely broken. "
​—"Dad, you know how to turn a pleasant conversation into a scolding one. "I said.
My sweetheart, this is not a scolding. I just wanted to let you know that my concerns about you do not diminish my pride in your talents. Your treehouse, for instance, is so beautiful! I liked your idea and the design. You've sophisticated talents, rich, and grand! You can be a successful architect in the future. I'm so so so happy for you! — He said with a voice filled with genuine pride.
Did you see that the bougainvillea plant has grown well? It's beautiful! And you were right, with this warm weather, the inside of your "Nest" became much cooler. I liked that detail too.
Thank you, Dad! I know that you love all of this. So do I, I love my Nest! I want to sleep over there every night, but you don't let me do it because it isn't safe at night.
Believe me, my love, it's not safe for you to stay overnight. And you don't need this; you have a beautiful and comfortable bedroom at the house Castelo Sítio.
—Ah, before we finish, I want to ensure you understand that your adventurous spirit, like climbing to the top of the tree and jumping into the river, always worried me, but it's something I've always admired. But now, I hear you're jumping off the bridge. The bridge is so high, my dear. This is keeping me up all night. I can't bear the thought of my beautiful daughter getting hurt," He said.
—Dad, don't worry. The risk is the same whether I jump from a tree or a bridge." The bridge is high, you're right, but it's a firm piece of concrete. The tree branch sways so much that sometimes I almost fall before I even jump. I said.
—"Oh my God! These things are hard on my heart to bear." He said.
C-130 Hercules, a legendary cargo plane, of the Brazilian Air Force (FAB).
I vividly remember being 8 years old when watching a television program about a Parachute Infantry Regiment from Rio de Janeiro. The program showed the launch of 30 parachutist soldiers aboard the C-130 Hercules, a legendary cargo plane of the Brazilian Air Force (FAB). The instructor explained that after two months of classes, the soldiers would jump from 800 meters.
That day was the first time I heard about skydiving. At that moment, I had so many questions racing through my mind: Would it be possible? How could those soldiers dare to jump out of a plane? What if the parachute didn't open? How would the instructor open the plane door in mid-flight?
The C-130 Hercules, full of skydivers, took off. The instructor's leadership and the soldiers' discipline were impressive. The soldiers sat inside the Hercules in jaw-dropping silence. A few minutes after takeoff, the instructor opened the Hercules's door and communicated with the pilot through the aircraft's radio to position the Hercules on the jump route. He then signaled for the soldiers to stand up. They had already attached their parachute (parachute opening tape) connectors to a steel cable towards the Buffalo's roof.
They wore camouflage jumpsuit, helmets, boots, T-10 round parachutes, and ventral round reserves parahutes. The fully equipped instructor at the door of the Hercules was in charge of everything and everyone. As the time for the jump approached, he called out, "Step forward." The soldiers lined up and took small steps, one after the other. The soldiers were already by the Hercules's door, and then the instructor shouted, "READY, SET, GO!"
I was captivated by the sight of the soldiers jumping from the plane. I couldn't believe what I was seeing. I felt a rush of adrenaline, unlike anything I had ever experienced. Watching that video made me feel the sensation of jumping.
The sight of numerous parachutes flying through the expansive blue sky was breathtaking. It stirred a profound desire within me to fly like them. At that very moment, I exclaimed, "When I grow up, I'm going to fly. I'm going to become a paratrooper.
How Skydiving Changed My Life.
Life Has These Things:
When I was 19, a friend named Roberto kept asking me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. 'But you have a girlfriend,' I told him. 'That girl you always see me with, her name is Maria. She's my friend.' He said.
One day, as I was leaving school, I saw Roberto talking to a friend in the schoolyard. I approached them, and we started chatting. His friend left us. I mentioned seeing him with Maria at the ice cream shop. 'Oh, this is true! Maria, very excitedly, came to tell me she had signed up for a skydiving school.' He said.
—'A skydiving course? That sounds amazing! Do you have more details about the school?... Where it is?' I asked.
—'Calm down, my beauty! Don't tell me that you're also interested in skydiving! It seems that all Marias are crazy.' He said jokingly.
—'Maria won't stop talking about this crazy skydiving idea! I already told her to stop with this because I'm worrying about her safety, but she doesn't want to listen to me. Skydiving is extremely radical... It's a thing for men.' He said.
—'There is no skydiving in the state. How does a skydiving course suddenly appear, and no one knows about it? Wasn't this publicized?' I asked.
—'It's a private course at the Military Police Academy and will start next Monday. She spoke to the commander, Coronel Canuto Tupy Caldas (Commander CTC), and he let her sign up. The group has twenty military men; only she is a woman and a civilian. The instructors are military from another state." He said.
—Oh my God! My initial shock turned into pure excitement. Meeting Commander CTC and his wife, Dona Naná, made me believe that my dream of skydiving was soon to become a reality.
During the summer, there were plenty of outdoor activities that I enjoyed. As a member of the 'State Association of Scouts & Bandeirantes,' we had a meeting on that Thursday afternoon. Our team leader scheduled volunteer work for an upcoming soccer match at the Albertão Soccer Stadium on Saturday. She was thrilled to announce some great news: the soccer match referee would parachute into the stadium carrying the game ball. ''Can you guys believe it!?" She exclaimed with enthusiasm.
I was amazed by this unexpected turn of events! I had never heard of parachuting in the city, but suddenly, one day I found out about the Military Police's first parachuting course, and next day the football referee was going to parachute into the stadium. This is impressive!!
I was stationed in the Girl Scout groups division to work outside the stadium, organizing parking. I wanted to talk to the Parachutist Judge, so I asked if I could stay with the group inside the stadium. However, my request was denied because I had been with the group inside the stadium during the last game. I had to rotate within the group.
I felt sad, but I found comfort in the thought and my heart, that Saturday afternoon would be special and the sun would shine for everyone.
The plane flew over the stadium, and the parachutist-judge jumped out of the airplane. The screams of the crowd echoed inside the stadium.
Suddenly, I noticed that the parachutist, who used a round parachute named PC was struggling against the strong wind. He landed outside the stadium and I was one of the first to reach him. I asked if he was okay."Yes, I am fine. Thank you!" He said.
I mentioned my dream of skydiving, and he suggested that I register for the course at the Military Police barracks of the city.
That Sunday, I couldn't think of anything else. On Monday, at 7:30 am, as I crossed the gates of the Barracks of the General Command of the Military Police of the State of Piauí. I came face to face with a group of soldiers from the Barracks Guard. They were all in camouflage uniforms, helmets and boots, and each held a rifle. They seemed surprised to see me there so early.
When I was very close, one of the soldiers took a few steps forward and asked how he could help. After him, came another soldier, and then another, and another one, until I felt like I was on an island surrounded by a group of armed soldiers from head to toe. Despite the intimidating setting, my determination to enroll in the Barracks parachuting course was unwavering.
With a subtle, delicate gesture, one of the soldiers informed me that the course was exclusively for military personnel—a very strong man, tough guy, stalwart, beefcake, mighty ... Capiche!" As he spoke, he struck the HULK pose. They all laughed. I stood my ground, refusing to be intimidated by his display of power, trying to put me out of a place where he had zero power.
The young man was a very happy soldier. As he spoke, he gestured a lot with his hands. I swear I saw traces of nail polish on his nails. Insisting, I said I wanted to speak to Commander CTC. "He's not in the office, miss. He doesn't usually get to the barracks this early." Said the happy soldier. Suddenly, another military personnel approached. The Sarg. D'Silva, the Chief of the Guard that day, arrived to end the confusion that had formed in the Guard reception. He ordered the soldiers to return to the Guard post.
I informed him that I was interested in enrolling in the parachuting course and needed to speak to Colonel Tupy Caldas to request authorization. "Miss, the Commander is not in his office," he said. "This morning, he has a meeting with Governor Alberto Silva at Karnak Palace," he added. "Well, as the "Soldier Maravilha" mentioned, the parachuting course is only for military police officers, and the classes have already started today at 8:00 am." He said.
I almost laughed at the nickname "Soldier Maravilha," but I remained quiet, believing there was still order among those military men. In my very innocent head, I had no idea that there were gay men inside Military Barracks full of so many men.
I asked Sarg. D'Silva when the Commander would arrive at the Barracks. "Come back here around 11 o'clock," Said the Chief of the Guard. And... he looked at me from top to bottom and asked my nome:
"Miss Maria?... and....?" He asked. "Sorry, officer, my name is not Maria. I said my name is Mery M—E—R—Y. And I don't have a last name. Capiche! I said. "OK, OK. Sorry!" he said.
With one hand on his waist and the other on his chin, he said: Miss Mery, it will be difficult for you to get a place on this course. I couldn't even register myself, to give you an example. The course is only for military personnel of the Military Police, and the candidates were hand-picked by the colonels from the general command of the barracks.
Continuing to look at me provocatively, he said: "Well, as you have a good shape (To emphasize my attractive body, he drew a guitar body shape with his hands while looking at me from head to toe); if I were you, I would be looking for a big wedding. Leave this business of wanting to be a skydiver. Would you change this beautiful dress to a ridiculous camouflage jumpsuit? Are you sure you want to exchange this pair of beautiful sandals for a ridiculous pair of boots, which will look big on your feet.—We don't have boots small in your size. Oh, you have to cut your beautiful hair and also you'll have to cut your nails, and don't even insist on keeping them long and painted, because in the process of packing a parachute, they'll break and the polish will come off."—I didn't acknowledge him, and left.
Returning at 11 am, I caught the Head of the Guard off guard. He seemed surprised, mentioning that the Commander would only be at the Barracks in the afternoon. I took a seat on the bench in front of the Barracks, contemplating the unexpected turn of events.
Half an hour later, I was in front of the Commander CTC's house. A very serious, fully uniformed, and impeccably armed soldier from the Military Estate Guard approached. I said I wanted to speak to the CTC Commander. I would talk to Dona Naná, his wife, if he weren't there. The guard, indicating with his head, told me to look back in a certain direction.
The colonel opened the car window and said, "Mery, my favorite champion, what a pleasure to welcome you to my home." The Commander called me "my favorite champion" because I had won a gold medal in the 100-meter championship in a student competition at Liceu School. The competition's closing party was in the barracks courtyard, and the Commander CTC placed the medal around my neck.
—Colonel Tupy Caldas, I need to talk to you. The matter is serious." I said. He asked if I had already had lunch. I shook my head negatively, saying, "No." "Then you are my guest. Let's go in." He said. Once seated at the table, the Coronel, Dona Naná, and I, he started the conversation by asking how my studies were going. Then he wanted to know the important subject that brought me to him.
Colonel Tupy Caldas, as you know, I'm an athlete in many sports. However, one sport holds a special place in my heart, and I believe my dream of pursuing it is within reach. I've harbored a strong desire to become a skydiver since I was 8 years old, and my determination to pursue this dream has only grown stronger over time.
The Colonel coughed and took a long drink of water. He looked at me worriedly and asked, "Mery, my daughter, is it true that you want to go skydiving?" I replied, "Yes, Colonel, it's been a long-time dream of mine. Since the Military Police is running a course at the Barracks, I'm sure you will permit me to participate." I said.
—Mery, it is true that we have a parachuting course at the barracks. The course started early today. However, the expenses for this course are being paid by the State Military Police. How am I going to justify something like that? And I can't put you in a barracks with more than a thousand men.
—"Colonel Tupy Caldas, I can pay my expenses, that's not a problem" I said convincingly. "One more thing, Colonel, There is no problem to be a woman. The Lord has already authorized Maria to take the course.
—"I still can't believe she actually signed up for the course," he said, sounding a bit let down.
—"Colonel, she was serious. She's already there, taking the course," I replied, without certain about what I was saying..
—"It's true?!" He spoke in amazement.
Mrs. Naná entered the conversation. She looked at her husband and said, "Tupy, if you authorized Maria to take the course, I don't see any problem with you letting Mery fulfill her childhood dream. Let both Maria and Mery take the course."
—Mery, sweetheart, I don't understand why would you insist on jumping out of a perfectly good airplane! I would never do it, even if someone paid me a million dollars." He said.
I was very happy and said, "Colonel, please call the instructors and tell them that they now have Maria and Mery, in the course.
Sarg. D'Silva, was already waiting for me.
—"Women really do rule the world." He said.
—"This shouldn't bother you." I replied.
—"Oh, no no no. Absolutely, it doesn't bother me." He said
As we walked across a spacious courtyard, curious military men strained to get a glimpse of us. They murmured among themselves while watching us.
Sarg. D'Silva led me to the hall where the parachuting course was. I didn't know anyone in the room except Maria. When she saw me, she didn't try to hide her expression of admiration.
The course lasted five days, from Monday to Friday, and included several theoretical classes, packing main and reserve parachutes, and intense physical exercises. Squats, push-ups, forced walking, and running were the constants of the training. There were many training of plane exits and landing sessions throughout the week. Body aches and bruises on my arms and legs were expected. Everything was necessary to prepare me for the day of the jumps.
At 6:00 am on Saturday, we were already at the jump site, scheduled for Senador Petrônio Portella airport, the only airport in Teresina. However, the unexpected happened. Suddenly, the arrival of heavy rain was announced. The Military Police management immediately contacted the administration of the Caxias Municipal Aerodrome in Maranhão, a neighboring state 70 km away. We spent two days jumping in Caxias with wonderful weather!
My first jump? It was a comedy! Things usually happen only to me:
T-10 military equipment ​​were widely used at the time. It seemed no one had made gear for women. With a small stature of 5.4 and weighing just 100 pounds, any equipment was too big for me.
I was in the first load and was the first one to jump out. We took off in a Cessna 185 without a door. It was my first time flying in an airplane. Sitting on the plane's floor, on the pilot's right side, with my back to the aircraft's instrument panel, I looked down, admiring the immensity of the forest areas with the babassu palm trees of Maranhão. - My home state.For someone whom had never been on a plane, taking off sitting at the door opening of an airplane without a door seemed a little scary. I didn't even think for a second about giving up. I dreamed for many years that one day I would fly.
We arrived at the jump altitude. The pilot received guidance from the jump instructor, Eduardo. The noise of the Cessna's engine and the strong wind prevented good communication. The instructor shouted to the pilot: “AIRPLANE ON FINAL ROUTE.” Eduardo took my hand, looked straight into my eyes, and said out loud. "MERY, OFF THE PLANE." Sitting at the door, with my feet on the plane's footboard, with both hands, I held on tightly to the upright (aircraft support, below the wing) and pulled myself out of the plane. The wind was very strong. As the equipment was very loose on my body, I felt the equipment had remained inside the plane when I got up.
As I positioned myself well outside the plane, I looked at Eduardo. Smiling, he gave me a thumbs-up and shouted, "READY, SET, GO." I took a deep breath, released my hands, and threw myself backward. I felt my body flying at the plane exit , witnessing the pilot smiling at me and Eduardo sending out kisses.
Hollywood missed the big picture. What a spectacular exit! Skydiving is the most extraordinary thing in the world. It's a deep internal sensation that immediately evokes a strong emotional reaction between the body and mind.
Life Has These Things!